The Symphony of Emotions

There’s exhilaration, of course. A soaring, almost giddy sense of triumph. The feeling of having finally reached the summit of a long, arduous climb. It’s a validation, a testament to the power of persistence and the quiet strength of belief. But alongside the joy, there’s a tremor of something else. A flicker of apprehension, a whisper of “What if?” The fear is a shadow, stretching out from the edges of the light, a reminder of the unknown that lies ahead. It’s the fear of failure, of inadequacy, of stepping outside the comfortable confines of the known. I have never lived outside of Connecticut. I have been the anchor here for my parents, family and friends. But now, with the support of my loved ones, who assure me it’s okay, we are making it happen. 

It’s a strange paradox, this dance between excitement and fear. It’s like standing on the brink of a great adventure, the wind whipping through your hair, the view breathtaking, but the drop-off… well, the drop-off is a long way down. There’s a vulnerability in this moment, a rawness that comes with exposing your deepest desires to the world. It’s no longer just a dream; it’s a tangible thing, something that can be touched, measured, and yes, potentially judged. Wow! Just typing it is wild. 

But beneath it all, there’s a deep, abiding sense of gratitude. Gratitude for the opportunity, for the journey, for the people who have supported us along the way. Gratitude for the lessons learned, the challenges overcome, and the growth that has come with every step. This isn’t just about achieving a goal; it’s about becoming the people we are meant to be – in this chapter of our lives. It’s about honoring the voice within that has been whispering, “Someday,” for so long.

Three Anchors in the Storm: Staying Excited When Fear Settles In

When fear starts to creep in, and it inevitably will, it’s important to have anchors to hold onto. Ways to keep the excitement alive, to fan the flames of passion, and to remember why this dream was worth pursuing in the first place.

1. Revisit the “Why”

The “why” is the heart of any dream. It’s the reason you started, the fire that ignited the spark. When fear threatens to extinguish that spark, it’s time to revisit the “why.” What was it that made you want this so badly? What impact did you hope to make? What change did you want to see in the world or in your own life?

Take a moment to write it down. Put it in your own words. Make it personal, make it powerful, and make it a constant reminder of what truly matters. When the doubts start to surface, pull out that “why” and let it remind you of the bigger picture. Let it reignite the passion and give you the strength to keep moving forward.

2. Celebrate the Small Victories

The journey to a big dream is rarely a straight line. There will be twists and turns, ups and downs, and moments of both triumph and setback. It’s important to celebrate the small victories along the way. Every step forward, no matter how small, is a step closer to the destination.

Acknowledge those small wins. Pat yourself on the back. Share them with someone who understands. These small victories are the fuel that will keep you going when the road gets tough. They’re the reminders that progress is being made, that the dream is within reach, and that you are capable of making it happen.

3. Connect with Your Community

No one achieves a dream alone. There are always people who have helped, supported, and encouraged you along the way. When fear starts to isolate you, it’s time to reconnect with your community. Reach out to those who believe in you, those who have been there from the beginning, and those who understand what you’re going through.

Share your fears, share your excitement, and let them remind you of your strength and your potential. Their support can be a lifeline in moments of doubt, a reminder that you’re not alone, and a source of inspiration to keep moving forward.

The Leap of Faith

The moment is here. The dream is no longer a distant vision; it’s a reality unfolding before my eyes. There’s a mix of trepidation and exhilaration, a dance between fear and faith. But more than anything, there’s a profound sense of gratitude. Gratitude for the journey, for the lessons learned, and for the opportunity to step into the life I’ve always dreamed of.

It’s a leap of faith, a step into the unknown. But it’s also a step into the truest version of myself. And that, more than anything, is worth embracing. The dream is taking flight, and I’m ready to soar.

What are you dreaming of, and are you ready to soar on? 

Pam Drzewiecki, Success Coach – [email protected]

If you are seeking community or individual support, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I would love to hear from you. 

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One moment stands out vividly. A close friend called me late at night, overwhelmed with problems that, once again, I jumped in to fix. I dropped everything, sacrificing my own plans, my own rest, and even my own peace. When I hung up the phone, I felt depleted. But what hit me hardest was the realization that I had done this over and over again—not just with this friend, but in many of my relationships. I wasn’t showing up for myself the way I showed up for everyone else.

That night, I had an honest conversation with myself. I asked: Why do I feel responsible for everyone else’s happiness? Why do I struggle to say no? And then, I turned to the One who always has the answers—Jesus.

Through prayer, reflection, and seeking His wisdom, I realized I had my priorities out of order. Scripture reminds us in Matthew 6:33, “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” I had been placing people’s needs before my relationship with God, and in turn, before my own well-being. But when I put Jesus first, everything else started falling into place.

What is Co-Dependency?

Co-dependency is a behavioral and emotional condition where a person places an unhealthy level of responsibility for another person’s emotions, decisions, or well-being onto themselves. It often starts from a place of love and care, but over time, it becomes draining and leads to resentment, burnout, and a loss of self-identity.

Co-dependent relationships are not just between romantic partners. They can exist between parents and children, friends, siblings, or even in workplace dynamics. If you find yourself constantly sacrificing your needs for someone else and struggling with guilt when you don’t, you may be dealing with co-dependency.

Are You Co-Dependent? Here Are 3 Signs to Look For:

Co-dependency can be sneaky because it often disguises itself as love, loyalty, or responsibility. But if you’re feeling emotionally drained, constantly fixing others’ problems, or struggling with boundaries, it may be time to check in with yourself. Here are three common signs of co-dependency:

1. You Feel Responsible for Other People’s Emotions

Do you find yourself absorbing the emotions of others? If someone is upset, do you immediately feel the urge to fix it—even at the cost of your own peace? Co-dependents often take on the emotional burdens of others as if they are their own. You may feel anxious if someone is unhappy with you or struggle with guilt when you can’t “make things better” for them.

2. You Struggle to Say No

You say “yes” even when you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, or don’t have the capacity. You may fear disappointing others or worry they will think less of you if you set boundaries. Instead of feeling empowered by your decisions, you may feel trapped—constantly putting others first while neglecting your own needs.

3. You Seek Validation Through Helping Others

Your sense of self-worth is tied to how much you do for people. When you help, you feel needed and valued. But when people don’t reciprocate the same level of care, you may feel unappreciated, resentful, or even question your worth. If your identity is built around being the “fixer” or “helper,” it can be hard to step away from co-dependent behaviors.

Once you embrace this mindset, you will start to find peace. I know I felt less guilty for setting boundaries. Instead, I felt free—knowing that God never intended for me to carry burdens that weren’t mine to carry. Even when they seem that should be. 

Two Ways to Break Free from Co-Dependency

Breaking free from co-dependency doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with intentional steps. Here are two powerful ways to start:

1. Put Jesus First & Trust His Plan

When we seek God first, we shift our focus from pleasing people to following His purpose for us. Ask yourself: Am I doing this out of love, or out of fear of rejection? Let God guide your relationships to be healthy, balanced, and aligned with His will.

2. Set Boundaries Without Guilt

Jesus Himself set boundaries—He stepped away to pray, He didn’t heal on demand, and He didn’t let others dictate His actions. It’s okay to say no. When you prioritize your well-being, you create space for the right people to respect and value you for who you are, not just for what you do for them.

A simple boundary-setting statement could be:

• “I love and care about you, but I can’t take this on right now.”
  
• “I need to take care of myself too, so I won’t be able to do that.”
  
• “I trust that you’ll figure this out, and I’m here to support you, not solve it for you.”
  

If you see yourself in my story, know this: You are worthy of love, respect, and care—without having to overextend yourself. You don’t have to believe in Jesus to stop the co-dependency cycle, even though it does help. Breaking free from co-dependency isn’t about abandoning others; it’s about choosing to care for yourself just as much as you care for them while keeping God at the center of it all. 

Jesus first. Then you—your relationship, your family, and your friends. When we align our lives with His plan, we step into freedom.

Are you ready to shift from feeling drained to thriving? I offer one-on-one and group coaching.  Let’s walk this journey together!Pam Drzewiecki
Success and Motivational Coach | Speaker
Powerful Purpose | Purpose Den | Fill the Purse with Purpose

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March is coming, and with it, the energy of spring, is a time for activation, growth, and forward motion. But here is the thing: If we wait until March to start, we will already be behind. Instead, we can use these next two weeks to light the fire, shake off the winter slump, realign our energy, and step into the next phase of our second act with intention.

So how do we do that? By focusing on three key areas: energy alignment, intentional preparation, and micro-momentum. Let’s break them down.

1. Energy Alignment: What’s Fueling You vs. What’s Draining You?

By mid-February, the new year’s excitement has worn off, and we can clearly see what is working and what is not. Before we can move forward, we need to check in on our energy. Are we spending time on things that truly align with our goals and values? Or are we stuck in habits, commitments, or mindsets that are keeping us in place?

Think about it like this: If you are trying to build a fire, you need good fuel. Wet wood won’t burn. It’s time to clear out what is not serving us and make space for what will actually keep our fire going.

Try this: Make a quick Fuel vs. Drain list. Write down the things that energize you and the things that leave you feeling exhausted or uninspired. Then, choose one thing to let go of and one thing to double down on for the rest of the month.

2. Intentional Preparation: Laying the Groundwork for March

Spring is coming, and with it, fresh opportunities. But instead of waiting for the shift to happen to us, let’s start setting things in motion now.

What part of your life needs preparation? Maybe it’s your health getting back into a consistent movement routine so you feel strong and ready for spring. It may be your business clarifying your focus so you can hit the ground running. Or maybe it is your mindset shedding old doubts so you can step into a season of growth with confidence.

Try this: Choose one area of life to prep for growth. It doesn’t have to be huge just one simple shift that will make March feel effortless instead of overwhelming.

3. Micro-Momentum: Small Actions, Big Impact

A lot of people think renewal requires a massive overhaul. It doesn’t. Fundamental transformation happens through small, consistent actions. These next two weeks are about building tiny micro-momentum steps that create lasting change.

The key is to choose something doable something that feels like progress but doesn’t overwhelm you. Because once you start moving, even in small ways, momentum builds. And before you know it, you are ready for what’s next.

Try this: Set a two-week challenge for yourself. Pick one simple habit or action to focus on daily something that will fuel your growth. Maybe it is 10 minutes of movement, a morning journaling session, or reconnecting with one person a day. Whatever it is, commit to it for the rest of the month and watch how it shifts your energy.

Your Fire is Waiting

February isn’t just a bridge between winter and spring; it is the spark that prepares us for what’s next. These next two weeks are an opportunity to shift, realign, and reignite our energy so that when March arrives, we are not just thinking about growth we are ready to activate it.

So ask yourself: What needs your attention right now? What small steps can you take to fuel your momentum? Use this time intentionally, and you’ll step into spring stronger, clearer, and fully prepared for what is ahead.

Your second act isn’t waiting for a perfect moment. It starts with how you choose to rise today. Let’s light the fire.

Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. 

God is always working on something new in us. Even in seasons that feel slow or uncertain, He is preparing us for renewal. Trust the process, take the next step, and watch how He makes a way for you. Isaiah 43:18-19

If you are ready to take action and create meaningful momentum, I love hearing from you! Whether setting new goals, finding clarity, or getting support, let’s connect and start building the next chapter of your story together. Reach out to me today, and let’s light that fire!

Pam Drzewiecki
Success and Motivational Coach | Speaker
Powerful Purpose | Purpose Den | Fill the Purse with Purpose

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Winter, after all, is a season of rest. Nature pulls back to conserve energy. Trees shed their leaves and store nutrients, animals retreat to hibernate, and the earth itself pauses in quiet preparation for spring’s bloom. Shouldn’t we follow the same rhythm? Rest isn’t a luxury; it’s an essential part of growth.

The Wisdom of Hibernation

Think back to the last few months of the year. Between holiday festivities, family obligations, year-end deadlines, and planning for the new year, most of us are running on empty by the time January arrives. Instead of rushing forward, this is the perfect time to pause, reflect, and rebuild.

January is an invitation to hibernate—not to shut down completely but to slow down and give yourself space to breathe. This period of rest allows your mind and body to recover from the busyness of life while setting the stage for what’s to come.

Use this time to reflect on the year that just ended. Ask yourself:

• What accomplishments from 2024 am I most proud of?
• What challenges taught me the most?
• What can I release to make room for new opportunities in 2025?

This reflection isn’t about judging yourself or dwelling on regrets. It’s about honoring where you’ve been and creating clarity for where you’re going.

Prioritizing Rest and Renewal

In a world that glorifies hustle, taking time to rest can feel unnatural. But hibernation isn’t about doing nothing—it’s about doing what matters most. It’s about saying yes to restoration and no to unnecessary pressure.

Consider how you can make January a month of intentional rest:

• Dedicate time to activities that nourish your soul, like reading, journaling, or prayer.
• Create space for quiet moments, whether it’s a morning cup of tea in silence or an afternoon walk in nature.
• Set boundaries with your time and energy, ensuring you’re not overcommitting or rushing to take on too much too soon.

This is your season to recharge. By giving yourself permission to pause, you’re creating the foundation for the growth and energy you’ll need in the months ahead.

Waking Up Slowly in February

As February approaches, think of it as your wake-up call. Like a bear stirring from its winter slumber, you don’t need to spring into action all at once. Instead, start slowly and intentionally.

Use February to experiment with new habits. Maybe you begin with something small, like committing to a weekly planning session or dedicating 15 minutes each morning to movement or meditation. This is your time to ease into routines that support your goals without overwhelming yourself.

Think of February as a month of preparation. It’s about aligning your actions with your intentions, testing out what works, and giving yourself the freedom to adapt as needed.

Blooming in Spring

By April, the world around us begins to bloom—and so will you. The rest you embraced in January and the intentional habits you nurtured in February will pay off as you step into spring with energy, clarity, and purpose.

Spring is a season of growth, but growth is only possible when we’ve taken time to prepare. Your hibernation allowed you to restore your reserves, and now you can channel that energy into the areas of your life that matter most.

Whether it’s pursuing personal goals, deepening relationships, or making strides in your career, you’ll find that the time you spent resting and reflecting has set you up for success.

The Power of Rest

In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to overlook the importance of rest. But just as the earth needs winter to prepare for spring, we need moments of stillness to recharge and realign.

When you prioritize rest, you’re not falling behind—you’re setting yourself up for sustainable growth. You’re choosing to live with intention rather than reacting to the demands of life.

This January, resist the urge to rush into action. Instead, embrace the stillness. Use this time to reflect on your needs, replenish your energy, and set the stage for a thriving year ahead.

Your Call to Reflect and Recharge

How will you use this season of hibernation to prepare for growth? What steps can you take this January to prioritize your rest and renewal?

If you’re looking for support, join The Purpose Den Community, where we share resources, encouragement, and connections to help you live intentionally. Together, we’ll embrace the rhythm of rest and growth, ensuring that we’re ready to bloom into the best versions of ourselves when spring arrives.

Take the time you need. Rest now, and let the world see you flourish later.

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Letting go of what no longer serves you isn’t just about closure—it’s an act of bravery. It’s about saying I’m ready to move forward and creating space for something new. While letting go might seem overwhelming or bittersweet, it can also be freeing. Imagine stepping into the future lighter, more intentional, and open to joy.

If this resonates with you, let’s explore how you can begin the process. Together, we’ll uncover ways to identify what’s holding you back and embrace the freedom of letting go.

1. Acknowledge What’s Holding You Back

The first step is to figure out what’s no longer serving you. Take a moment to reflect on these areas:

• Habits: Do routines or behaviors leave you drained or stuck in place?
• Mindsets: Are limiting beliefs—like fear of failure or the urge to please everyone—keeping you from moving forward?
• Relationships: Are there people who no longer bring joy or growth in your life?

You don’t have to judge yourself for holding onto these things; simply notice them. Journaling or talking to a trusted friend can help you uncover patterns that might not be obvious at first.

2. Understand Why It’s Hard to Let Go

Letting go often feels difficult because of what’s underneath the surface. Ask yourself:

• Are you clinging to a habit because it feels safe, even if it’s not helpful?
• Is the fear of the unknown keeping you in a situation that no longer fits?
• Are you avoiding change because it feels too big or overwhelming?

By understanding the reasons behind your attachment, you can begin to untangle the emotions and beliefs that keep you stuck.

3. Picture What’s Possible

Sometimes, the best motivation for letting go is imagining what life could look like without those weights.

• What energy could you reclaim by dropping a draining habit?
• How much confidence would you gain by letting go of self-doubt?
• What peace would you feel if you released a toxic relationship?

Hold onto that vision—it’s why you’re doing this work.

4. Start Small

You don’t have to overhaul your entire life overnight. Small, intentional steps can lead to big changes over time.

• Say “no” to one commitment that doesn’t align with your goals.
• Replace one negative thought with a kind word about yourself.
• Spend less time with someone who drains your energy and a little more with someone who lifts you.

Every small step matters and each one brings you closer to the life you want.

5. Forgive and Release

Letting go often requires forgiveness—both for yourself and others.

• Forgive yourself for staying in situations longer than you wanted to.
• Forgive others for their role in experiences that hurt you.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or excusing harmful behavior. It simply allows you to release the emotional weight and move forward with peace.

6. Make Space for Growth

Letting go isn’t just about removing the old—it’s about welcoming the new.

• Start building habits that align with your values.
• Say yes to opportunities that stretch you in positive ways.
• Deepen connections with people who encourage your growth.

Think of this as creating a blank canvas for the next chapter of your life.

7. Trust the Journey

Letting go is a process, not a single moment. There will be ups and downs but trust that each step will lead you toward something better. When the path feels uncertain, lean on your faith, your support system, and your inner strength.

Your Turn

What’s one thing you’re ready to let go of? Maybe it’s a habit, a limiting belief, or an old grudge. Take one small step today—write it down, share it with a friend, or simply hold it in your heart.

Remember, letting go isn’t about losing something—it’s about making room for something greater. This is your time to enter a new season, lighter and more aligned with the life you deserve.

What will you release to make space for your best self? Let’s support each other in this journey. Share your thoughts, or simply reflect on how letting go can bring you closer to the joy and purpose you’re meant to have.Enjoy the journey. Let’s talk. https://calendly.com/powerful/discover-session

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This blog post is here to guide you on your journey of reinvention. We’ll explore what it means to embrace your “second act” with purpose and confidence.

Midlife Transitions and Self-Empowerment

Midlife is a time of significant transitions: career changes, empty nests, caregiving, new homes, and a renewed focus on health and well-being. It’s an opportunity to redefine your purpose and cultivate self-empowerment.

By shifting your mindset, overcoming societal expectations, and exploring new passions, you can navigate these transitions with grace and emerge stronger than ever.

The Time is Now

You’ve dedicated years to raising a family, building a career, and caring for others. Now is the time to prioritize your own needs and desires.

Why Create a Second Act?

• Re-evaluate your life: Midlife is a natural time for reflection and reassessment.
• Rediscover your identity: Explore who you are beyond traditional roles.
• Pursue unfulfilled dreams: Revisit passions and goals you set aside.
• Focus on personal growth: Invest in self-development and fulfillment.
• Feel a sense of urgency: Make the most of the years ahead.
• Leverage your wisdom and experience: Use your knowledge to shape a meaningful future.
• Break free from societal expectations: Defy age-related stereotypes.
• Embrace cultural shifts: Society is increasingly supportive of midlife reinvention.

Key Questions to Ask Yourself

• What does reinvention mean to me at this stage?
• Are there dreams I’ve put on hold?
• How can I prioritize my well-being?
• What limiting beliefs are holding me back?
• What if I stepped outside my comfort zone?
• What skills or passions do I want to explore?
• Who do I want to become in this next phase?

These questions will spark deeper reflection and guide you on your journey.

Remember the wise words of George Eliot pen name for  English Novelist Mary Ann Evans: “It is never too late to be what you might have been.”  

How Can You Get Started

• Self-Reflection: Take time to journal, meditate, or simply ponder the key questions posed in the blog post. Understanding your desires and motivations is crucial.

• Skill Exploration: Identify a skill or passion you’d like to develop and take a class, attend a workshop, or find a mentor to guide you.

• Small Steps: You don’t need to overhaul your entire life overnight. Start with small, manageable changes that align with your goals.

• Talk with a Coach or Mentor. Working with someone outside your “normal” circle or dream team can provide another perspective. 

Embrace Your Second Act with Confidence

Your second act is not just about making changes; it’s about honoring your past while stepping boldly into new opportunities. Whether revisiting a dream, starting a new career, or simply rediscovering yourself, it’s never too late to become who you are meant to be.

Let’s celebrate this journey together!

Cheers to your second act! I’m here to support you every step of the way.

Pam Drzewiecki, Business and Life Balance Strategist | Life & Business Coach | Speaker | Community Builder

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The Power of Authenticity

Authenticity isn’t just a personal preference; it’s a professional game-changer. When you bring your true self to work, you foster genuine connections with colleagues, clients, and partners. You become more than just a role or a job title; you become someone others trust and respect. As we mature in our careers, and some have longevity, so much wisdom and experience can be provided.

Showing up authentically means embracing your values, passions, and quirks. It’s about being honest about what you want and need from your career and aligning your work with your core beliefs. This alignment creates a powerful synergy between who you are and what you do, leading to greater fulfillment and success.

When working with my clients, we focus on these areas and incorporate them into their personal and professional lives. This makes the relationship cohesive and instills a balance of beliefs. 

The Intersection of Professional Development and Authenticity

Professional development is often perceived as acquiring new skills. While this is crucial to enhancing your knowledge, the journey doesn’t end there. It’s equally important to cultivate your unique voice and perspective. You have much to offer. Here’s why:

1. Increased Confidence: When you’re authentic, you learn new skills and grow into a more confident and self-assured version of yourself. This confidence translates into your work, making you more resilient and proactive. You can genuinely enhance things when you better understand what matters to you and find a place to align with you. Again, remember that your work and life experiences enhance and do not detract from your confidence. 
2. Enhanced Creativity: Authenticity fosters creativity. When not preoccupied with fitting into a mold or meeting external expectations, you can think outside the box and approach challenges from a unique angle. Your authentic self can drive innovation and problem-solving in ways you might never have imagined.
3. Stronger Relationships: Building genuine relationships is at the heart of professional success. When you show up as your true self, others are more likely to feel comfortable being themselves around you. This mutual authenticity creates a supportive environment where collaboration thrives and where all levels of the team can grow.
4. Sustainable Growth: Professional growth is a marathon, not a sprint. (I am sure you have learned this).  You’re investing in growth that feels right for you rather than trying to fit into someone else’s vision of success. That is why working in a place where you can align with their mission statement is vital for your growth and the company. 

Practical Steps to Embrace Authenticity in Professional Development

1. Self-Reflection: Reflect on your values, strengths, and passions. What makes you tick? What do you care about most? Understanding these aspects of yourself can guide your professional choices and development goals.

2. Seek Feedback: Engage with trusted colleagues, mentors, or coaches to gain insights into how others perceive your authentic self. Their feedback can help you stay aligned with your true self while navigating professional growth.
3. Set Authentic Goals: When setting professional goals, ensure they resonate with your core values and long-term vision. Avoid goals that are driven solely by external pressures or comparisons. Instead, focus on what truly matters to you.
4. Be Open and Honest: Foster an environment where honesty and openness are encouraged. Share your ideas, concerns, and aspirations with your team. When you model authenticity, you invite others to do the same.
5. Celebrate Your Uniqueness: Embrace and celebrate the qualities that make you unique. Let these aspects shine through in your professional life, whether it’s a distinct approach to problem-solving or a personal passion that enriches your work. If possible, it is imperative to be in a place where you can share this uniqueness. If not, reach out so we can discuss possible options.

Final Thoughts

Professional development is a continuous journey, and the most profound growth occurs when you align your career with your authentic self. By embracing your true identity and letting it guide your development, you can create a successful and deeply fulfilling career. So, step into your professional life confidently, let your authentic self shine, and watch your career transform in ways you never imagined. 

Please utilize your resources and dream team to create authentic professional awareness.

Pam Drzewiecki is a business and life coach for women, helping them thrive in a life they love. She is the creator of the Purpose Den community, speaker, author, and facilitator. Her coaching brings her community together to enhance women’s professional and personal growth and to help them establish a solid foundation. powerful-purpose.com

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Natural Awakenings, an online and printed publication, featured this article in its August 2024 edition. Published by Ariana Rawls Fine, the Central-Eastern Connecticut edition of Natural Awakenings included the article on pages 22-23. More details can be found at Natural Awakenings Central-Eastern Connecticut August 2024.

Do you wonder where you should go to fill the “emptiness” you feel? 

Community is a powerful gathering; when you spend time learning what it is and what you need, you will thrive. The significance of community cannot be overstated. It is part of our lives, our tapestry of belonging. We are naturally wired to be with people that will support, expand and stretch us as well as help us feel safe and protected. However, our surroundings can change the power behind a healthy community. Learning to navigate and negotiate where you will be supported is essential to growth. 

As we dive into the power behind creating and being part of a community, let’s understand the definition of community. A community is a group of people who share common characteristics, interests, values and a sense of identity well as often living in a defined geographical area. However, it’s the shared experiences that truly bind a community together. 

These experiences create a sense of connection and empathy among community members. Communities can be based on various factors such as location, culture, profession, interests or shared experiences. Community members interact with one another, support each other and work together towards common goals. The concept of community encompasses social bonds and the physical or virtual spaces where people come together to connect and collaborate.

Knowing the aspects helps you engage more effectively with communities, whether seeking to join, lead or understand them. By recognizing the existence of various cultural and ethnic communities, you can work to ensure that your initiatives are inclusive and considerate of different backgrounds. When we think about finding the right fit, this helps find a community that aligns with your preferences, no matter what community you seek to participate in. 

Types of Communities 

Thinking about the type of community first will help you seek and find what is the best fit. Start with thinking about where you are missing something, or a gap in your personal or professional life. Some of the types are: 

• Geographical: Communities that focus on your surroundings, your neighborhoods, cities or towns, or a region that interests you. 
• Interest-Based: Communities centered around shared hobbies such as gardening, knitting, sports (i.e., pickle ball), a certain team, activity or a book club. 
• Professional: Communities focused on industry associations like the American Medical Association or the Insurance Agent Association, networking groups like chambers of commerce, or trade unions.
•  Cultural and Ethnic: Groups and communities sharing the same cultural heritage, transitions and practices.
•  Religious and Spiritual Communities: These communities are made up of churches, mosques, synagogues, temples and groups that promote spiritual growth and community service. 
• Support: Communities that include support groups for personal issues and communities for social, political or environmental issues. 
• Educational: Communities that consist of schools and universities for students, teachers and staff as well as alumni associations for graduates to stay connected.
• Environmental: Communities focused on sustainable living and environmental stewardship.
•  Intentional: Communities designed with shared spaces and resources to foster close relationships or groups of people living together and sharing responsibilities and resources. 

Discernment of Your Needs 

Depending on what you are looking for, there is a community that will fit your need if you are open to searching for the right fit. Sometimes it can take a few tries to find the right one. 

By focusing on the need and how much you want to give and receive, there are some questions to consider.

• Are you looking for a place that holds you accountable and aligns with what you need for your spiritual, personal, creative and professional mind? 
• Is this a place to build effective relationships? 
• How could you pursue your personal growth as part of this community? 
• Are you going to be contributing to a common goal? 
• Will you share your knowledge there and learn from others? 
• Is there a common thread in supporting shared interests? 

When you join a community, it is not something you just jump into. Pause and discover what you are looking for and ensure it matches what you want to be involved in. The community will become an important part of your life when you truly connect with the purpose. Being a member can be amazing! 

Creating Your Own Community 

Joining a community enriches your life by connecting you with others, providing support and fostering growth. Creating your own community can also be a powerful way to unite people, address specific issues, and promote shared interests or goals. 

If you are searching for a community and can’t find the right fit, maybe starting a community will fill your gap. Starting a community allows you to focus on a passion or cause you care deeply about. You can create a space for like-minded individuals to connect, collaborate and support each other. 

What are the Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats (SWOT) related to your community idea? If you feel this is your calling, do a SWOT around the decision. Then start having conversations with others who your community will support. This can be an exciting opportunity for you. Stay aware of your needs, others and time commitments to align with your community mission. 

Why Be Involved 

Communities are the threads that weave our lives together. They offer a refuge where we can share our joys and sorrows, find guidance, and build lasting friendships. Whether you are seeking to join a group that resonates with your passions or considering starting your own, the emotional rewards are immense. Being part of a community nurtures our souls while creating one allows us to share our light and make a difference in the lives of others. 

Happy belonging! 

Pamela Drzewiecki works with clients in her Powerful Purpose life and business coaching practice and inside the Purpose Den community, which are platforms for women to share, grow and aspire to their best lives. Connect on https://calendly.com/powerful/letsconnect

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Natural Awakenings, an online and printed publication, featured this article in its May 2024 edition. Published by Ariana Rawls Fine, the Central-Eastern Connecticut edition of Natural Awakenings included the article on pages 16-17. More details can be found at Natural Awakenings Central-Eastern Connecticut May 2024.

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by life’s constant demands. Whether juggling personal responsibilities, professional commitments or both, taking care of yourself often takes a back seat. However, prioritizing self-care is essential, regardless of your age or circumstances. By establishing boundaries, carving out dedicated “me time” and nurturing your physical health, you lay the foundation for overall well-being. Even seemingly mundane activities like exercise can be powerful forms of self-care, shifting perspectives and enhancing your quality of life. 

During the normal chaos, cultivating mindfulness and emotional well-being becomes paramount. Daily practices such as gratitude, meditation, prayer, setting boundaries, and seeking support from your community and relationships can help you navigate emotional turbulence with resilience and balance. Embracing mindfulness equips you to handle challenges more effectively and fosters a deeper connection with yourself and others. 

As you strive for personal and professional growth, setting realistic goals and reflecting on your progress are crucial steps. Breaking down larger goals into manageable steps and fostering open communication with peers and loved ones can alleviate overwhelm and promote forward momentum. 

Self-care is not inherently selfish. It’s important to distinguish between healthy self-care and selfishness. Self-care involves taking actions to preserve or improve your own well-being, which can include activities like exercise, meditation, spending time with loved ones, pursuing hobbies or seeking therapy. Engaging in self-care can enhance your ability to care for others and fulfill responsibilities because it helps maintain physical, emotional and mental health. 

Selfishness, on the other hand, involves prioritizing your own needs and desires at the expense of others, often without regard for their well-being. 

While it’s crucial to strike a balance between caring for yourself and considering the needs of others, neglecting self-care can lead to burnout, resentment, and decreased effectiveness in relationships and responsibilities. Therefore, practicing healthy self-care is not selfish but rather a necessary component of maintaining overall well-being and being able to effectively contribute to the well-being of others. 

Five ways to create a journey for life while creating balance. You may need more or less of one of these categories at different times in your life. The beauty of creating your life is the awareness of what you need. 

Prioritize Self-Care 

No matter what age, prioritizing selfcare becomes paramount. Establishing boundaries, carving out dedicated “me time” and nurturing physical health are foundational steps. Recognizing that even seemingly mundane activities like exercise are forms of self-care can shift perspectives and enhance well-being. How are you practicing self-care? 

Embrace Mindfulness and Emotional Well-being 

Cultivating mindfulness is crucial for navigating emotional turbulence. Daily practices like gratitude, meditation, prayer and seeking support from your dream team, communities, and personal and professional relationships can foster resilience and emotional balance. When we are aligned with our core values and understand what makes us feel fulfilled, our choices can be very different. What are your core values? 

Set Realistic Goals and Reflect 

Setting realistic goals and delegating tasks effectively are essential for personal and professional growth. Breaking down larger goals into manageable steps and fostering open communication with peers and loved ones can alleviate overwhelm and promote progress. A system can help identify the items that are on your list. Creating your list and putting items in a category assists you in reaching your goal and enhancing productivity. What goals will you set?

Process Thoughts Through Journaling 

A designated space to unload thoughts is invaluable. Stream-of-consciousness journaling allows for exploring ideas without judgment, facilitating clarity and insight. Engaging in reflective conversations and journaling further refines thoughts and decisions. The process is designed to help you unload and redefine what truly matters. When do you plan to begin journaling? 

Cultivate a Supportive Community 

Surrounding oneself with a supportive community and strategic-thinking partners offers diverse perspectives and encouragement. Sharing experiences and insights within communities fosters growth and accountability. Ensure you have a dream team or a board of directors to manage the many roles you must undertake effectively. It has been said that we are the ones we surround ourselves with, and we always should have someone smarter in the room. Who is on your dream team?

Improving these areas of your life will help you take better care of yourself, find balance and reflect on your thoughts. Think about what constantly rushing through life really accomplishes. 

By reflecting on this journey, you will be reminded of the importance of embracing the process and finding solace in the familiar practices that ground us. Through gratitude, prayer and silent contemplation, we can navigate the ebbs and flows of life with greater resilience and clarity.

Hi, I am Pam Drzewiecki, Success Navigator. Through coaching, community, products, workshops, speaking, and stories, I’m here to help you thrive. Let’s connect for a virtual coffee.

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Creating Effective Morning Habits

As a mid-life woman, I’ve spent my whole life tied to the alarm clock—waking up early for school, then for my career, and even when I started my own coaching practice and set my own schedule. Over the years, waking up early has become routine, but functioning effectively in the morning requires a habit I’ve had to consciously create to ensure I stick with what I want my outcomes to be. Despite loving the life my husband and I have built, if I don’t get up right away, my whole day falls out of sync.

The Challenge of Sleeping In

Sleeping in can be hard for some, whether you’re happy with your life or not, especially when you’re burning the candle at both ends. My young and adult life was revolved around the alarm clock and the need to get up to take care of things. I love the life my husband and I have created, but it’s still tough to get moving in the morning sometimes if I don’t follow my routine and protocol for morning movement.

My Morning Routine

I have an amazing routine: I get my mushroom coffee, make our daughter a shake, and head to the front porch for prayer and journaling. I cherish this sacred time of my day. But even during these moments, I struggle to find total peace, as something always seems to be calling my attention away from where I need or want to be. These are the first 30-40 minutes of my day. After that, off to school for her, a walk, and/or exercise for me. Then my work day gets started. 

Contemplative Prayer: A New Focus

Lately, my bible study has focused on Contemplative Prayer, which involves addressing what needs to be addressed in a specific room while visualizing a discussion with Jesus. This practice helps release what holds me back, create a closer relationship with Him, and identify what’s on my mind. Initially awkward, I’ve found this practice transformative, changing my thought processes and bringing new results.

Re-Engage with Your Goals

June should be the month to re-engage with what you wanted your year to be. Reflect on what you promised yourself at the beginning of the year and assess your progress. Revisit and tweak those goals or bring them back into focus. Designing our ideal lives takes time and effort, but it’s worth it. Schedule intentional time to do the work—put it on your calendar, join a focused group, hire a coach. Whatever your method, just schedule the time and do it.

Getting Back on Track

Do you find yourself forgetting where you wanted to be and repeating old patterns, wondering why the same outcomes occur? Here are three ways to get started or get back on track to fulfillment:

1. Understand why you wanted it that way.
2. Identify what you need to do to shift and make it happen.
3. Tell yourself you are worth the time and effort and what outcome you will get.

Reflect and Take Action

When you consider these questions, what comes up for you? As we design our ideal lives, engaging takes time and effort. This June, let’s re-engage with our goals and commitments. Reflect on what you promised yourself at the beginning of the year and assess your progress. If needed, tweak those goals or bring them back into focus. Remember, you are worth the time and effort to achieve your desired outcomes. By understanding your motivations, making necessary shifts, and affirming your worth, you can set yourself back on track to fulfillment and break free from the cycle of routine and repetition. You are worth it. Live your life purposefully, not driven by circumstances, and shine your way to your Roadmap to a Thriving experience.

Hi, I am Pam Drzewiecki, Success Navigator. Through coaching, community, products, workshops, speaking, and stories, I’m here to help you thrive. Let’s connect for a virtual coffee.

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The Importance of Boundaries

Imagine your life as a garden. Without proper boundaries, your garden becomes vulnerable to invasive weeds, consuming nutrients for your cherished plants. Similarly, without boundaries, your time, energy, and emotional reserves can be overrun by the demands and expectations of others, leaving little room for personal growth and fulfillment. But boundaries are not always clear-cut. Sometimes, some vines sneak past. When this happens, just be sure to be ready to prune them back if you need to. 

Personal Boundaries

Setting personal boundaries is about defining what is acceptable and unacceptable in your relationships, interactions, and daily life. Here are some tips to help you establish and maintain healthy personal boundaries:

1. Know Your Limits: Reflect on what makes you feel comfortable and what doesn’t. Identify your emotional, physical, and mental limits.
2. Communicate Clearly: Be assertive in expressing your needs and boundaries to others. Practice saying no when necessary without feeling guilty.
3. Listen to Your Feelings: Pay attention to how you feel in different situations and interactions. Your emotions can be valuable indicators of when your boundaries are being crossed.
4. Prioritize Self-Care: Make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine. Prioritize activities that replenish your energy and bring you joy.
5. Learn to Say No: Understand that saying no is not selfish; it’s an act of self-preservation. Respectfully decline requests or invitations that don’t align with your priorities or values.

Professional Boundaries

In the workplace, setting boundaries is essential for maintaining productivity, fostering healthy relationships, and preventing burnout. Here are some strategies for establishing and upholding professional boundaries:

1. Define Your Role: Clarify your responsibilities and expectations with your colleagues and supervisors. Clearly outline what tasks you are willing to take on and what falls outside your job description.
2. Establish Work-Life Balance: Set designated work hours and honor them. Avoid taking work home or allowing it to encroach on your personal time unless absolutely necessary.
3. Communicate Effectively: Communicate your availability, deadlines, and preferred methods of communication to your coworkers. Set realistic boundaries around response times to emails and messages.
4. Delegate Tasks: Don’t hesitate to delegate tasks when appropriate. Recognize that you don’t have to do everything yourself and trust your colleagues to handle their responsibilities.
5. Practice Self-Advocacy: Advocate for yourself in the workplace by speaking up when your workload becomes overwhelming or your boundaries are being violated. Be assertive in setting limits and seeking support when needed.

How to say No:

Here are a few ways you can say no and still feel engaged.

• I appreciate your invitation, but I need to prioritize some personal time right now.
• I understand your request, but I’m unable to commit to it at this time.
• I’m feeling overwhelmed right now, and I need to take a step back.
• I’ve committed to better caring for myself, so I will pass on this opportunity.
• Thank you for thinking of me, but I must decline this time.

Setting boundaries is not always easy, but it is worth mastering for a healthier and more fulfilling life. Boundaries empower us to honor our needs, values, and priorities in our personal relationships or professional endeavors. By implementing the abovementioned strategies, you can cultivate a greater sense of autonomy, confidence, and well-being in all areas of your life. Remember, boundaries are not barriers; they are the fences that protect and nurture the garden of your life.

Challenge question: Where are you going to start setting boundaries? 

I am Pam Drzewiecki, your Life and Business Coach – Helping Women Navigate Their Personal and Professional Lives with Purpose through individual and group coaching, community creation, and speaker.

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Think back to those afternoons spent in the company of our own thoughts, where creativity blossomed and imagination ran wild. We turned empty cardboard boxes into makeshift forts, transforming our living rooms into enchanted castles or secret hideouts. We created elaborate obstacle courses in the backyard, challenging ourselves to feats of agility and daring. And when boredom struck, we raided the pantry for snacks and settled in with our favorite books or cartoons, losing ourselves in worlds far removed from our own. “Saturday mornings watching Conjuction, Conjunction What’s Your Function”.

But it wasn’t just about entertaining ourselves—it was about forging connections with others, too. We gathered with friends on front porches or in makeshift clubhouses, trading stories, and secrets until the streetlights flickered on and it was time to head home. We formed strong bonds that have been in place for most of our lives. They have stood the test of time and continue to sustain us as we navigate midlife.

So, as we reflect on those cherished memories from our latchkey days, let’s celebrate the resilience and independence they instilled in us and recognize the invaluable lessons they continue to impart. Whether it’s the importance of self-reliance, the power of imagination, or the strength of friendships forged in the crucible of childhood, these memories serve as reminders of the resilience and resourcefulness that define us as midlife women. And as we incorporate these lessons into our lives today, let’s do so with a sense of pride and gratitude for the journey that has brought us to where we are now.

As we look back some memories bubble up that we can incorporate into our lives today and find some joy in our past.

Playing Outdoors Until Dusk

Do you remember the days when the streetlights coming on was the signal that it was time to head home? For many of us, childhood was synonymous with endless hours of outdoor play, exploring the neighborhood with friends until the sun dipped below the horizon. The freedom and exhilaration of those moments are etched in our memories, reminding us of a simpler time when joy was found in the simplest of activities. Having the ability to learn self-reliance.

Bringing these cherished elements into our lives during midlife:

Reconnecting with nature and embracing outdoor activities can bring back the sense of freedom and joy we experienced as children. Consider taking regular walks in the park, going hiking on weekends, or even starting a garden in your backyard. What would it look like if you started jump roping again? Engaging in outdoor activities not only nurtures our physical well-being but also rejuvenates our spirits, allowing us to recapture the carefree essence of childhood.

Creative Play and Imagination

Who didn’t love building forts out of blankets, staging elaborate tea parties for stuffed animals, coloring, or embarking on imaginary adventures to far-off lands? Childhood was a time when our imaginations knew no bounds, and every corner of our homes became a canvas for creativity. Whether it was playing dress-up, crafting masterpieces out of cardboard and glue, or inventing fantastical worlds, we reveled in the magic of make-believe. There were no boundaries of our creativity. 

Bringing these cherished elements into our lives during midlife:

Reignite your creativity by indulging in artistic pursuits that unleash your imagination. Try your hand at painting, drawing, writing, or crafting—whatever speaks to your soul. Joining a creative workshop or attending art classes can also provide opportunities to explore new mediums and connect with like-minded individuals. By tapping into our innate creativity, we not only honor our inner child but also cultivate a sense of fulfillment and self-expression.

Bonding Over Simple Pleasures

Some of the fondest memories from childhood revolve around the simple pleasures shared with family and friends. Whether it was gathering around the dinner table for a home-cooked meal, snuggling up with loved ones for bedtime stories, or laughing until our sides hurt during game nights, these moments of connection were the heartbeat of our childhoods. The bonds forged during these times of shared joy and laughter continue to shape our relationships and nourish our souls.

Bringing these cherished elements into our lives during midlife:

Prioritize quality time with loved ones by creating opportunities for shared experiences and meaningful conversations. Plan regular family dinners, movie nights, or game evenings where everyone can unwind and connect. Additionally, consider starting new traditions or revisiting old ones from your childhood, such as baking cookies together or taking annual camping trips. By fostering strong connections with those we hold dear, we not only nurture our relationships but also cultivate a sense of belonging and contentment. Find communities and activities that cherish what is important to you. 

As midlife women, we carry within us the memories of our childhood—the laughter, the adventures, the bonds forged with loved ones. Even if there were times that were dark and difficult, was there one thing you could hold on to? By embracing these cherished moments and incorporating them into our lives today, we honor the essence of who we are and the values that have shaped us. Whether it’s rediscovering the joys of outdoor play, nurturing our creativity, or fostering meaningful connections, let us embrace the spirit of our childhood selves and infuse our lives with the magic of nostalgia. After all, age may change our circumstances, but it can never dim the sparkle of our inner child.

Hi, I am Pam Drzwiecki. I am a business and life coach, strategic planner, and community builder who helps women live their best lives and thrive. 

Jump on my calendar and let’s have a virtual coffee to connect. I would love to hear all about a cherished memory of your childhood. 

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