For years, it’s been a whisper, a persistent hum in the background of my life. A vision, painted in vibrant colors in the quiet corners of my mind. “Someday,” I’d say, “Someday, I’ll do that.” These are conversations I am having with my husband, Michael. And now, that “someday” is breathing down our neck. It’s not a distant star anymore; it’s a sunrise on the horizon, imminent and undeniable. The dream we’ve nurtured, the one we’ve talked about endlessly, the one that’s been the subject of countless late-night conversations, is about to become reality. And the feelings? They’re a whirlwind, a symphony of emotions playing out in the theater of my heart.

The Symphony of Emotions

There’s exhilaration, of course. A soaring, almost giddy sense of triumph. The feeling of having finally reached the summit of a long, arduous climb. It’s a validation, a testament to the power of persistence and the quiet strength of belief. But alongside the joy, there’s a tremor of something else. A flicker of apprehension, a whisper of “What if?” The fear is a shadow, stretching out from the edges of the light, a reminder of the unknown that lies ahead. It’s the fear of failure, of inadequacy, of stepping outside the comfortable confines of the known. I have never lived outside of Connecticut. I have been the anchor here for my parents, family and friends. But now, with the support of my loved ones, who assure me it’s okay, we are making it happen. 

It’s a strange paradox, this dance between excitement and fear. It’s like standing on the brink of a great adventure, the wind whipping through your hair, the view breathtaking, but the drop-off… well, the drop-off is a long way down. There’s a vulnerability in this moment, a rawness that comes with exposing your deepest desires to the world. It’s no longer just a dream; it’s a tangible thing, something that can be touched, measured, and yes, potentially judged. Wow! Just typing it is wild. 

But beneath it all, there’s a deep, abiding sense of gratitude. Gratitude for the opportunity, for the journey, for the people who have supported us along the way. Gratitude for the lessons learned, the challenges overcome, and the growth that has come with every step. This isn’t just about achieving a goal; it’s about becoming the people we are meant to be – in this chapter of our lives. It’s about honoring the voice within that has been whispering, “Someday,” for so long.

Three Anchors in the Storm: Staying Excited When Fear Settles In

When fear starts to creep in, and it inevitably will, it’s important to have anchors to hold onto. Ways to keep the excitement alive, to fan the flames of passion, and to remember why this dream was worth pursuing in the first place.

1. Revisit the “Why”

The “why” is the heart of any dream. It’s the reason you started, the fire that ignited the spark. When fear threatens to extinguish that spark, it’s time to revisit the “why.” What was it that made you want this so badly? What impact did you hope to make? What change did you want to see in the world or in your own life?

Take a moment to write it down. Put it in your own words. Make it personal, make it powerful, and make it a constant reminder of what truly matters. When the doubts start to surface, pull out that “why” and let it remind you of the bigger picture. Let it reignite the passion and give you the strength to keep moving forward.

2. Celebrate the Small Victories

The journey to a big dream is rarely a straight line. There will be twists and turns, ups and downs, and moments of both triumph and setback. It’s important to celebrate the small victories along the way. Every step forward, no matter how small, is a step closer to the destination.

Acknowledge those small wins. Pat yourself on the back. Share them with someone who understands. These small victories are the fuel that will keep you going when the road gets tough. They’re the reminders that progress is being made, that the dream is within reach, and that you are capable of making it happen.

3. Connect with Your Community

No one achieves a dream alone. There are always people who have helped, supported, and encouraged you along the way. When fear starts to isolate you, it’s time to reconnect with your community. Reach out to those who believe in you, those who have been there from the beginning, and those who understand what you’re going through.

Share your fears, share your excitement, and let them remind you of your strength and your potential. Their support can be a lifeline in moments of doubt, a reminder that you’re not alone, and a source of inspiration to keep moving forward.

The Leap of Faith

The moment is here. The dream is no longer a distant vision; it’s a reality unfolding before my eyes. There’s a mix of trepidation and exhilaration, a dance between fear and faith. But more than anything, there’s a profound sense of gratitude. Gratitude for the journey, for the lessons learned, and for the opportunity to step into the life I’ve always dreamed of.

It’s a leap of faith, a step into the unknown. But it’s also a step into the truest version of myself. And that, more than anything, is worth embracing. The dream is taking flight, and I’m ready to soar.

What are you dreaming of, and are you ready to soar on? 

Pam Drzewiecki, Success Coach – [email protected]

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